By Jules McVey What happens when a woman's inner life is pressed so hard into survival that there is no room left for softness, desire, or dreaming? What happens when men are taught to equate strength with suppression, then wonder why fear of lack, fear of reject, or fear of being fully seen shows up in the body as tension, disconnection, or performance pressure? What happens to the body when expression is chronically postponed? Last year, when I had an emergency hysterectom